A Decent Idea That'll Never Work
A woman in front of me at the check out counter makes small talk with the cashier. I find her voice beautiful. For someone who is tone deaf in regards to his own singing, I have wildly specific preferences when it comes to sound. Her sound I could listen to everyday. She walks away, never to be heard from again. After attending Easter service with my religious family, I overhear a teen leaving the church who asks his parents why there is evil in the world if God is good. The kid�s dad offers a �mysterious ways� response and moves on. What do these two scenarios have in common? In both I wanted to engage someone who it was socially awkward to engage. In the case of the woman, my interrupting her exit with the simple compliment �you have a beautiful voice,� could make me a creep if she�s immediately uninterested in me, a potential mate if she is interested, and so far out of the ordinary that it�s bound to be weird regardless. To be clear, while I obviously don�t want to be a creep, neit...